Often it seems to parents that the rules of kindergartens impose unreasonable requirements on the appearance of the child, his behavior or the mode of attendance. What is the norm, and what is an unofficial code of rules for preschool, the law will tell.
Requirements for the appearance of children, their hairstyle, as well as the obligation to wear a certain form when visiting a preschool institution are not established at the legislative level. Most often, certain visiting rules are prescribed in a contract with a kindergarten, as well as in its statutes, and include a “Tidy Look, Washed Face, Trimmed Nails and Clean Clothes”.
Rules of kindergartens: reasonable requirements.
Usually, caregivers ask that the child always has removable underwear, handkerchiefs and seasonal shoes in the child’s locker. Clothing must comply with the time of year and air temperature. Ties, clasps, buttons, zippers on clothes and shoes should be positioned so that the baby can serve itself. Naturally, all personal items better mark.
Common sense should tell parents that every morning before leaving the house it is necessary to check the contents of the baby’s pockets for dangerous objects. After all, what only a child does not put there: chewing gum, torn off buttons, beads, which are easy to shove in the nose, but hard to pull out, pins and even tablets. It is clear that such rules of kindergartens and administration are explicable and normal.
Rules of kindergartens: typical controversial situations.
It happens that the teachers under different pretexts do not want to let the baby into the group, referring to the rules of kindergarten. How right are they?
1. The boy has long hair. Parents say that this model haircut is the hit of the season. A nurse needs to cut her hair, arguing that this is due to the observance of sanitary norms (however, the arguments can be different.
In fact, no sanpine says that a child should have short hair. Anything that is not prohibited by Russian law is allowed. In addition, girls and educators also have long hair!
2. for physical education or dance classes need a certain form. The child was not allowed into the classroom when he came in a different-colored sport uniform or forgot Czech.
In this case, the actions of the teacher are illegal. Of course, it's beautiful when all the children are in black shorts, white T-shirts and socks. But as already mentioned, the mandatory form for kindergartens has not yet been introduced. In the event that even in the DOW statute, the form is written in the form of white leggings and a yellow tunic for dance classes, these prescriptions are only of an advisory nature. To resolve the problem is enough to talk to the head.
3. The caregiver states that in the winter season, all children in the group should wear tights. It does not matter that the room is very warm!
Most likely, when all the children are in tights, they are easier to gather for a walk. Or the garden staff is worried that if the child gets sick, there will be a demand from them. Parents can also be understood. With girls, everything is much simpler: a dress and pantyhose. And with the boys? Sweating in pantyhose and pants is unpleasant. Parents will have to negotiate with the nanny.
Rules of kindergartens: conflicts related to the regime of visits.
The kid attends a preschool in accordance with the rules of kindergartens and the mode of operation of a particular garden. Days and hours of work, of course, prescribed in the rules of kindergartens. Namely - in the local acts of the institution: in the statute, the regulations and the contract with the parents. Garden workers are comfortable that all children are brought and taken at a strictly agreed time. But not all parents do it, and because of this sometimes controversial situations arise.
1. The caregiver does not accept a child who is late for half an hour. In this case, the actions of the educator are justified.
First, the morning reception, as a rule, is carried out in conjunction with a medical professional. Revealed sick children or children with suspected disease according to the rules of kindergarten should not be accepted. A child who arrives at the wrong time misses a physical, and this can lead to the infection spreading, and the children will often get sick in kindergarten.
Secondly, in groups of any age in the morning - exercise. In the warm season - on the street, in bad weather - in the gym. The kid, who came late, will either skip exercises or distract the caregiver and the whole group.
Thirdly, by the number of children who came to the garden in the morning, baby food is calculated in the garden and the amount of food prepared in the kitchen. And if there is always an extra portion of cereal, soup or mashed potatoes for a late child, then what to do with a piece product: boiled eggs, cutlets, pancakes?
2. The boy visits the sports section twice a week from 10. 00 to 12. 00. The teachers refuse to accept the child these days. A case similar to the previous one. The actions of workers DOW legitimate. In this way, they can protect themselves: injuries sustained when visiting a group or section may appear closer to evening. Thus, if on this day the child does not have a pass, then according to the rules of kindergartens, the entire responsibility for the health of the small athlete will fall on the educators.
Parents can advise two solutions to this problem:
* change the time of visiting the section (move closer in the evening) ,.
* conclude a contract with a kindergarten for a more flexible day schedule.
3. Parents take the child to bedtime, arguing that they have the right to take the baby at any time and not to report to anyone.
Usually in the rules of the kindergarten and in the contract with the kindergarten is prescribed only the time until which the parents are obliged to take their child. But nowhere is it stated that they do not have the right to take the baby early, and for this purpose no permission from the manager or caregiver is needed. But if you regularly pick up a child for lunch, be prepared that he can be transferred to a short stay group. In order to eliminate the queue to kindergarten in many regions, this procedure is allowed.
4. the baby was absent from the garden for three days; the nurse needs help.
By law and according to the rules of kindergartens, a certificate indicating the diagnosis, the duration of the disease, information about the absence of contact with infectious patients is needed, attention, only in two cases:
* after an illness ,.
* in the absence of a child in kindergarten for more than 5 days, excluding weekends and holidays.
5. The baby leaves for the whole summer to the country (to the grandmother, to the resort. The head manager threatens to deduct him for non-attendance, referring to the rules of kindergartens.
Carefully read the contract you entered into with the preschool institution. It should set the maximum number of days you can skip. In some institutions - 75 days, in others - 90. In any case, according to the rules of kindergartens, you will have to write a statement addressed to the manager stating the reason for absenteeism (parental leave, travel abroad, sanatorium-resort treatment, etc.)
Rules of kindergartens: what should be able to child upon admission.
A preschool institution, if it is state or municipal, has no right to set any requirements for the skills of a child upon its admission.
But at the very first organizational meeting, you will be informed that, according to the rules of kindergartens, your baby should be able to eat independently (hold a fork, spoon, glass so as not to get dirty), walk well, ask for a potty, do without diapers and nipples, know your clothes , be able to dress and put on shoes. Everyone has their own point of view.
DOW workers believe that teaching a child basic skills is the task of parents. There are 20-25 children in a group, and what will happen if all the kids are helpless? Parents think differently: children are given to the garden so that they can be taught everything there.
1. A child cannot fall asleep without a nipple, which the caregiver has strictly forbidden to bring into the garden.
Russian legislation, sanpiny do not prohibit the baby to fall asleep with the nipple. Moreover, a mother can come and breastfeed her baby or bring milk before bedtime.
2. in kindergarten it is forbidden to use diapers.
Of course, it is illegal to make such a requirement to the rules of kindergartens. Thus, if the parents do not want to go into conflict, you can wear a diaper in the form of panties for your child, and bring disposable absorbent diapers for daytime sleep.
3. children who can do everything themselves, the educator praises and sets an example to others. Other crumbs begin to experience and complexes, with time they refuse to visit the garden.
Only if the child is constantly humiliated, remind the teacher that there is a convention on the rights of the child, which he has no right to violate.
4. upon admission to the garden the child is examined (tested.
This is done in order to determine the level of development of the baby, to find out whether he needs individual lessons with a psychologist, speech therapist. The test results themselves are not grounds for refusing admission to preschool.
Kindergarten rules: mandatory minimum.
Do you know that according to the rules of kindergartens:
- The locker where the child hangs his clothes should be individual. It is forbidden to use one locker for two children or more.
- The groups should be provided with conditions for drying shoes and clothes for babies.
- According to the rules of kindergartens, special tables, chairs, sinks and wardrobes for mothers' clothes should be provided for swaddling, changing clothes and breast feeding babies in the nursery. Text: Marina Panteleeva, lawyer karapuzik kindergarten child law.
4. Baby hairstyles
The process of modeling children's hairstyles consists of the same steps as the process of modeling hairstyles for adults, but this area of modeling contains some limitations or additions caused by strict requirements based on the characteristics of the age and the psychology of the child. When modeling hairstyles for children, it is necessary to take into account the particular physique and psychology of the child at different periods of his growth, the requirements of hygiene and pedagogy.
Children's hairstyle should be beautiful and comfortable, it should decorate the child and bring him joy, contribute to the proper physiological development of the child's body, promote the aesthetic education of young citizens.
Modern children's hairstyles (Fig. 109, 110) do not undergo significant fashionable changes, as it happens with adult hairstyles. They largely obey their laws. The shape of the hairstyle (mainly the haircut is meant), its silhouette, the length of the hair is mainly determined by the age-related features, the associated lifestyle changes and the whole look of the child. Forms of children's hairstyles are mostly stable (they may coincide with fashion or not coincide), with the exception of hairstyles of teenagers and young people, whose lifestyle begins to approach the lifestyle of adults. In children's hairstyles, some adult fashion trends can and should be partly reflected, but, of course, depending on the age of the child and in the subordination of both functional and educational factors.
Fig. 109. Modern girls hairstyles
The influence of fashion, of course, is absent in haircuts from a very early age. Then, as he grows, changes in lifestyle and interests, the hairstyle of the child also changes, in which the features of modern fashion begin to appear.
Fig. 110. Modern boys hairstyles
In a child-schoolboy, the range of interests expands, responsibilities appear, work and sport begin to occupy an increasingly significant place in life, and the hairstyle changes accordingly, in the silhouette of which or in the technology of creation fashionable directions are reflected.
In the hairstyles of children of senior school age, fashion trends should manifest themselves to a greater extent, but certainly within a reasonable one. Created by the hairdresser, these hairstyles should play an educational role from an aesthetic point of view.
Specifically, fashion in the children's hairstyle is reflected in the use of fashionable haircut techniques, which largely determines the possibility of getting fashionable in volume silhouettes, and the total length of hair. But the choice of this or that (fashionable or unfashionable) haircut technique is also largely due to the peculiarities of the child's age. For example, the use of precise shaping haircuts with scissors is possible only in the hairstyles of teenagers and young men (girls), since this method of hair cutting is very tedious for children of younger age groups.
In the development of hairstyles for children of younger age groups, it is more expedient to envisage the use of more traditional, less tedious (faster performed), less accurate techniques (simple edging, haircuts on the fingers), but still giving the opportunity to keep some external signs of fashionable shape and silhouette in the hairstyle.
The overall length of the haircut is more dependent on the age of the child, and not on the fashion for the length of the hair. For example, for young boys, the shape of the hairstyle should be designed in such a way that the hair on the lower part of the head is short. The age characteristics of children of this group (many movements) do not allow, for reasons of hygiene, to leave longer hair on the lower part of the nape, especially in summer. The same considerations are largely guided in the development of hairstyles for younger girls: the hair on the back of the head is either cut short or left half-length so that, if necessary, they can be lifted up, using, for example, elegant hair styles, decorative hairpins, bows, etc.
In general, the factors of functionality, convenience, hygiene should certainly be taken into account when modeling children's hairstyles, especially the younger age groups, since the children of these age groups are not yet able to independently maintain their hairstyle in a neat way.
In the development of specific children's hairstyles with individual modeling should be noted and the role of parents. Some parents want to see their child either a “doll”, or they want to make him a trendy adult haircut. In various situations arising in such cases, you should look for opportunities to soften parent orders. How to resolve such contradictions, a hairdresser can only be prompted by his experience and the specific situation itself. Maybe sometimes it makes sense to offer another, rather fashionable, but more suitable for use by a child instead of one fashionable adult haircut. In order to get a decorative (“doll”) hairstyle, it is not necessary to wind the hair with curlers, as is customary in adults, but to make a large curl, which usually does not require much care in everyday life and can give shapes that are clearly decorative, but at the same time children (natural).
Age features can make their adjustments and the length of the bangs. Features of the lifestyle of primary and middle school students (sports, head position when reading and writing) suggest a short or medium bang length, the rest of the hairstyle is developed accordingly. In upper grades, bangs are usually lengthened either because of fashionable aspirations or because of the disguise of age-related acne on the forehead, which is also very important. This should be taken into account when cutting and in any case not shorten the bangs.
It should be noted that there are many problems with representatives of this age group when individually styling hairstyles for them, as they often read the current fashion in a very peculiar way, focusing mostly on the formal side and revealing a tendency to exaggerate as a silhouette and shape in general, and the nature of the details.
The examples show how important are age factors, psychological characteristics, inherent to each age, considerations of comfort, hygiene, etc., when creating hairstyles for children, otherwise modeling hairstyles includes the same steps as modeling hairstyles for adults. , proceeds in the same sequence, subject to those laws and rules that were previously discussed in this book.
Basic requirements for school hair
There are several basic requirements for simple hairstyles to school:
- accuracy. The hairstyle should be formal and formal. Dishevel and carelessness in this area are not appropriate,
- convenience. Laying should not distract from the school process, be uncomfortable and deliver discomfort in the process of learning.
If a girl is used to wearing bangs, you should regularly monitor her length. It should not interfere during physical education classes or in the process of study.
- minimum amount of styling products. It is better if such funds on children's hair and will not. Excessive amounts of foam and varnish not only look extremely inappropriate within the school, but can also cause allergic reactions on sensitive scalp.
- hair care. They should always be clean, combed and have a well-groomed appearance. Negligence and lack of care are not allowed here.
School is a place of knowledge, not an opportunity to show off hair. Therefore, it is not recommended to distract from the educational process neither the owner herself, nor the surrounding students.
- resilience.School hairstyle should hold out until the end of the school day, steadily transferring physical education classes and active games at recess.
- moderate content of accessories. Bright hairpins and bows appropriately look at the holiday, and not in the daily life of students. In school, it is better to choose simple hairpins and gum, which will not distract attention.
Laying for students of lower grades
The junior school lasts from 1 to 4 grades and represents an important stage for a girl. It is here that she learns to interact with others, knows a lot of new information, strives for self-expression.
Hairstyles in elementary school should be easy to create and well fixed. This will save mom's morning time, and also allow styling to last until the end of the lesson.
The most common and easiest option is to create a ponytail. It can be applied on long hair and medium length. In addition, this hairstyle baby can independently tighten during the day.
What is there in the law?
There is a Federal Law “On Education in the Russian Federation” (No. 273-FZ). This law gave schools the right to set requirements for the appearance of students. In particular, this concerns school uniforms (article 38).
How about hairstyles? This is a moot point.
About how the hair of schoolchildren should look like, the law does not say a word. That is, formally it turns out that the school has no right to dictate to pupils what hairstyles they need to wear. And that means children can come to school with any hair. Though here with such!
On the other hand, the business style of clothing of a schoolboy, to which the law directly indicates, implies an appropriate hairstyle, do you agree? Therefore, schools still set certain limits. And prescribe these restrictions in their local regulations.
At the school where my daughter is studying, the normative act concerning the appearance of schoolchildren is called the “Provision on a uniform school uniform and the appearance of pupils”. This position is not accepted by the school alone. It takes into account the views of parents, teachers and students.
Where can I find this document? On the official school website. And the school is obliged to have a website on the Internet.
School requirements
So, this is what is said in the “Regulations on the uniform school uniform and the appearance of students” of our school about hair:
How do you? In my opinion, normal, adequate requirements. Braid need, barrettes to use, boys cut in time. Although not all is clear. For example, what is “extravagant”? I may have one concept of extravagance, the teacher has the second, and the child has the third.
Parent requirements
Scary, of course, speak for all. But I, as a representative of the parents, will try to complete the list of requirements for hair.
- It should be comfortable, so as not to interfere with learning. Suppose, if there is a bang, then it should not climb into the eyes. They say it affects the vision is not the best way.
- It must be safe, especially with physical education and technology. No one probably wants to dip their beautiful flowing curls into glue or to wrap them on uneven bars in a gym class and tear them up by the roots.
- She must be beautiful and neat.
- She must fit and like a child.
- The process of building hairstyles (for girls) should be simple and fast. In the morning there is not so much time for weaving.
- The hairstyle should be reliable so that at the end of the school day the child still looks neat.
This is my opinion. It will be interesting to know your requirements. Can you add to the list? Or consider it necessary to exclude any of the items. Please write in the comments.
Schoolchildren requirements
Now I suggest to get acquainted with the requirements of those who will wear this hairstyle. That is our little schoolchildren. She conducted a small opinion poll in which my daughter Alexandra, who is currently 10 years old and her classmates, took part. It turned out that for children it is important that the hairstyle was:
And these requirements are easy to satisfy.
If girls have long hair, then beautiful and fashionable braids and tails are available to them today.
Charming hairpins and headbands will help the owner of medium-length hair.
Well, not only boxing, halfboxing and Canadian are now available for boys. There are such master hairdressers who will make both beautiful, and unusual, and fashionable.
Fortunately, in elementary school, most of the children still trust the opinions of their parents and do not seek to conflict with teachers. At least, I have never heard that any first-grader or second-grader himself shaved naked or repainted blue.
With some children, all this will happen later, in the middle classes, when the age of transition knocks on the door. Then the hairstyle becomes a means of expression or a tool of protest.
And then, having appeared in school with a colorful Mohawk or dreadlocks on his head, the student faces problems. Teachers and school administration insist that the child put himself in order. That is, in fact, they require the student to fulfill the requirements of the normative act adopted in the school. And what will happen if the child does not agree?
Punishment for violating school requirements
I will say right away that the school does not have the right to prevent a child from school because of his “wrong” hairdo.
But then, in accordance with Article 43 of the Law “On Education”, disciplinary measures may be applied to a student for violation of local regulations:
Deduction - this is an extreme measure, which is applied when nothing else helps. When the student's behavior begins to threaten the life and health of other students and school employees. Can hairstyle threaten the life and health of others? That is unlikely. So for it, most likely, do not deduct. And you can not apply such a punishment as a deduction to those who have not reached the age of 15.
And now the good news for us, as parents of elementary school students!
Disciplinary measures can not be applied to students of the primary general education program!
This law says clearly. Hopefully, after these words, no one will shout “Hurray!” And will not send the child to school as a sleepy shag.
I do not know about you, but I personally am very pleased when my children look neat, when the form is all right, and with the shoes, and with the hairstyle. That in eyes, in a mouth, in a face nothing climbed and did not hinder.
With Alexandra, we comb, weave, every morning. We have several options for simple, fast, beautiful school hairstyles. Be sure to tell you about them in a separate article.
With Artem easier. He has the usual short haircut, so enough to keep his hair clean and comb them. And with this he himself does an excellent job. Maybe before the first class we will do something more interesting. I really liked the haircut, as in the video. A great option in my opinion. Unusual, stylish and neat)
Friends, if you have additions on the topic of the article, you are welcome in the section for commentators. Thank you in advance for your opinions, comments, suggestions.
Tail and lace braid
To create this hairstyle you will need to collect the hair in the area of the crown and fix it with the most inconspicuous elastic band. Next, take one strand from the tail and braid the pigtail. She then wraps around the gum. If length allows, you can wrap it in several circles.
This is a fashionable and spectacular, but rather time-consuming hairstyle. It not only has an attractive appearance, but also does not become loose throughout the day. Therefore, parents should pay attention to it.
To create it, you need to take a strand of hair on the top (a small tail), then separate ¼ part from it and begin to weave a pigtail. In the process of its weaving should regularly capture strands located on the outside.
Weaving occurs in a circle, and its end is fixed with a small rubber band and hides inside the braid. "Snail" is appropriate for use for every day, as well as on holidays, if you decorate with ribbons or beads.
To make Malvink's hairstyle, divide the hair into two equal parts. Each of them is taken in one strand and twists into a bundle, securing it in the neck.
If a girl's hair is thick enough, you can make 3-4 of these tows, and as a variety, replace them with pigtails.
Options for teenage girls
The greatest relevance among hairstyles for teenage girls are styling, which are based on tufts and braids. Weaving is particularly relevant over the past few years. That is why on the Internet you can find a large number of master classes with step-by-step instructions. On the basis of braids there are a large number of school hairstyles:
- "Spikelet"
- volumetric braid (lugs inside out),
- two pigtails at the temples with hidden tips,
- classic braids,
- French braids that trail from the forehead to the back of the head.
Particularly relevant and fashionable option is a neat bunch. He not only looks stylish, but also requires a minimum amount of time and skills to create a hairstyle. It is very easy to create with studs and a special roller.
To organize the beam, you will need to make a horse tail, and on top of the rubber band you can put on a special bagel-shaped roller. Next, strands of hair wrapped on this roller, securing each of them with pins.
Hairstyles for high school students
High school is a very controversial period. On the one hand, schoolgirls do not have the time and energy for a haircut due to heavy workload, exams and upcoming entry, and on the other hand, the desire for self-expression and the desire to please the boys.
It is as a result of a rich school life hairstyles should be fashionable and attractive, simple and fast in execution. The most popular options include a volume beam, as well as styling, created on the basis of the Greek and French braids.
Bulk bundle
For the easiest way to create it, you will need studs and rubber bands. His organization is possible on the hair of any length, and a small carelessness as a result will only help to bring additional tangible notes. It consists of the following steps:
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- The hair is carefully collected in the tail and fixed with a rubber band.
- The combed strands are twisted into a braid or plaited. Then he wraps around the gum.
- The result obtained is carefully recorded using stealth.
- To achieve easy negligence, you can make a harness or braid more free.
Braid based styling
A sufficiently effective result is achieved when creating styling based on French or Greek braids.
Braiding the braids along the forehead can hide slightly oily or regrown roots (in the case of dyed hair).
To create a fashionable and highly refined styling, you need to take a small part of the hair in the area of the crown and weave a loose braid from it. After several weaves, it is taken from two sides along an extra strand and woven into a common braid. Then the usual weaving continues again. The same actions are carried out 2-3 more times. At the end of the process itself, you can slightly tousle the braid or pull out several strands from it. In order that laying served longer, the result is fixed by a varnish.
An example of creating a beautiful school hairstyle for a girl, see the video below.
Conclusion
Choosing a school hairstyle is a very individual process. He should be guided by his own preferences, the requirements of the school, his own style and fashion trends. The hairstyle should be practical and complement the image, but not attract everyone's attention. We also recommend that you get acquainted with the hairstyles for the final 4 class.
